Decades ago, my daughter's classmate, Kota, who lived nearby, confessed his feelings to me. Thinking he was just expressing his admiration for older women, as boys of his age often do, I told him I was sorry. Years later, when my daughter returned home with her fiancé, I opened the front door to greet him and found a familiar young man standing there. To my surprise, my daughter's fiancé was Kota. It brought back fond memories...