"Can I have a bite of your ice cream?" I can see other people's things clearly, and because they're other people's, I want them. That doesn't change even when I become an adult. When I was a university student, I had a convenient boyfriend who confessed his love to me, but we didn't date. When the sex with him wasn't great, or when I was lonely without a boyfriend, I would send him a message asking, "Can we meet now?" and he would 100% reply, "Sure." Even after graduating, he was my convenient partner...